biscuitfarmer's Full Review: Ian Kerner - She Comes First: The Thinking Man's G...
Note: This review contains extreme sexual content. If you are sensitive to sexual content, please leave the review now, as I don't dummy down my reviews to make them easier for the sensitive.
Every man who has ever existed (straight men) has wanted to be the most fantastic at everything sexual to every woman in the world. We as men want to be the very best at sex and we want everyone to know about it. That doesn't mean that we have to be with everyone for them to know about it, but we want to give our partner's orgasms that are so powerful, sewer crews think that the vibrations are a 9.2 on the richter scale earthquake above them. Fortunately for productivity, that's not completely possible, but bringing knowledge to the sexual table will make sex that much more enjoyable to you and your partner.
Long ago my wife and I made an agreement about oral sex. I get oral sex if she gets oral sex. We both decided that we wanted oral sex, so I guess the decision was made. I didn't however, want to just be good at it, I wanted to be amazing at it. So, with this in mind, I went to the local book store to see what I could find on the topic, not expecting much. I found, "She Comes First: The thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman." Little did I know, this book would make my wife look at me in a completely different way.
Concept
The book was created in order to help men figure out exactly what a woman is looking for in oral sex. Since we can't receive oral sex in the same manner, we don't know exactly what is going on. So, the first part of the book tries to help us as males understand what is happening down there, where the good spots are, and things of that nature.
The book eventually goes on to talk more and more about the actual process and what to look for in making sure that your partner has the best possible orgasm.
The Works
This book takes you from a stupid man who knows virtually nothing more than what little your partner has told you about oral sex to an oral magician that can whirl up an orgasmic hurricane at will.
The book begins with the simple stuff, techniques and things just to get you started. They help you understand the female anatomy a little bit more, show you where the most sensitive areas are. Then it comes down to a little more technique and style. The book helps you find out what your partner likes by listening to them and adjusting to meet their needs.
Rather than just going at it, there's an actual rhythm that is involved in it, that most men don't know about. According to the author, when get into a natural rhythm and if you don't match that rhythm, then they can't achieve orgasm, no matter what you do. Of course there's a lot more to it than that, but assuming that you are partners because you love each other, most of that has already been taken care of.
The book talks about avoiding the common theories about the G-Spot and trying to find a single spot for stimulation and focusing on that. The author believes that there's a lot more to that region of the body than just as single spot and that by only focusing on one area, you are missing a great deal of pleasure for your partner.
Other things that the book talks about include uses your finger penetration in order to enhance an orgasm, both vaginal and anal or even sometimes both.
Other things that are a major focus are getting your partner in the mood. If you take the time from the beginning, you won't wear down your tongue as fast is the theory. If you arouse your partner properly ahead of time, she'll be halfway to the fence and you just have to knock her over it.
Major things that it covers are things that need to be watched for, avoided, etc. Things that most men aren't aware of such as female ejaculation, actually meaning that women can't squirt, and it can be painful if it gets in the eyes. The book helps you to notice when this is coming and ways to avoid it somewhat without interupting the rhythm of the moment.
Other things that it discusses are ways to get out of oral sex, when it doesn't seem to be going anywhere and how to transition into either some standard form of sex or some other form of gratification that is mutually acceptable.
Overview
Overall, this is a great book that truly has led to a more enhanced sex life for my wife and I. Her knowing that I have taken the time to learn better ways to pleasure her has made her come to appreciate me more as a mate. She now knows that I truly do want her to feel great pleasure and no longer feels guilty about accepting it first or being the only one to receive it.
She has also now begun to read up on oral sex herself so that she can use new techniques on me. So by reading the book, I not only made myself a better lover, but I pushed my wife to become a better one herself. Overall, it's a positive for the relationship and we definitely couldn't be happier with what we have together.
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